Saturday, August 17, 2013

Planting "Root's" Out West

"The best things in life are a result of being wounded.  Wheat must be crushed before becoming bread, and incense must be burned by fire before it's fragrance is set free.  The earth must be broken with a sharp plow before being ready to receive the seed.  And it is a broken heart that pleases the Lord.  Yes, the sweetest joys of life are the fruits of sorrow.  Human nature seems to need suffering to make it fit to be a blessing to the world" (my devotion book)

To say I have been walking in the valley would be minimizing how I have felt.  Since spring time I have been walking in the depths of a valley marked out and chosen for us and it has been very difficult for me to understand.  To put words to all that we have been walking through would be impossible.  My only request, is that you pray for us, seek God with all your heart on our behalf.  Pray specifically for Adam's memory, even more specifically for his ability to create memories that don't flee within minutes.  Oh God, how my heart cries out to You, knowing you are my only help in all of these trying and difficult circumstances... please God, please hear the cries of my heart and open Adam's memory like a floodgate... please relieve him of the torture he is in day after day, hour after hour.

I am struggling, pleading with God for Adam's memory.  I don't understand all that has happened in the last 3 years... I don't understand all that has been allowed to harm and hurt us, and I am struggling to cling to the promises marked in my Bible, yet I know how real and true they are.  I feel this weird torment... between my flesh and my soul... my flesh wants me to give into my pain and hurt, it wants to be angry about my circumstances, but my soul is clinging onto finding all that I can to be thankful for.  It desires and urges me to worship and fall to my knees even when I don't "feel" like it and it's in these sweet moments that the Lord does meet me with sweet tenderness and encouragement.  I am not walking in this valley without the hands of God carrying me through... I am walking this valley very much with Him even if it means I cry out to Him in my frustration and sometimes in my anger of not understanding. 

During this time, I have reached out to those who hold me accountable and who have walked this journey helping me in my pain to get up and face all that God has blessed me with... one of these faithful friends asked me this week if I have been reading in the Psalms and I said I haven't been, I shared with her where I had been reading.  She encouraged me to ask God to give me a Psalm to meditate on, and in His faithfulness he has given me more than one.  I will share just one of the passages He has led me to.  "Hear my prayer, O Lord; listen to my plea!  Answer me because you are faithful and righteous.  I am loosing hope; I remember the days of old.  I ponder all your great works and think about what you have done.  I lift my hands to you in prayer.  I thirst for you as parched land thirsts for rain.  Come quickly Lord and answer me.  Let me hear of your unfailing love each morning, for I am trusting you.  Show me where to walk, for I give myself to you.  Teach me to do your will for you are my God.  May your gracious Spirit lead me forward on a firm footing."  (Bits and pieces of Psalm 143 NLT)

Since Adam's hospital stay last month we have made our way to Seattle, we have been able to find much needed rest and relaxation while still being around family and in surroundings very familiar to Adam.  Adam has been recovering well and continues to be under close watch and doctor supervision.  He has not been cleared for any traveling and even before we knew this we had come to the realization that being here is the best place for Adam in his current stage of recovery.  It is with a heavy heart and LOTS of prayer and tears that we have made the decision to make a permanent move to the west coast.  While I know it is the right thing to do, I am in so much grief.  Almost our entire married life has been walked out in North Carolina with God created family and many friends.  The thought of moving for me... well it just hurts. 

Psalm 145:17-20 "The Lord is righteous in everything he does, he is filled with kindness.  The Lord is close to all who call on Him, yes, to all who call on him in truth.  He grants the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cries for help and rescues them.  The Lord protects all those who love him."

Adam, Mackenzie, and I are moving back to the Seattle area.  We won't be able to do this without some much needed help and I am asking for you to prayerfully consider helping our family make this transition.  Whether you can commit to praying for us regularly or helping financially, or however God calls you to.  Contacting us via our PO box in North Carolina for right now is still the best way to reach us.  It won't be until fall that I will update with a new contact address.

Thank you for the cards and letters of encouragement we have received, they have been a continued source of comfort and encouragement, even if I have been unable to respond, please know that God has used your words to give strength and comfort when it has been needed the most.

Root's in August 2013

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Prayers Are Amazing and So Is My Man!

Before I go into a full update and making up for lost time, I know many of you have been following my facebook updates today so I will start there today and hopefully give a thorough update by the end of the weekend.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

Adam has continued in his fashion taking us on a tour of all the nation's finest hospitals.  Today we are currently admitted at Oregon Health and Science Hospital in Portland, OR.  Actually the whole day together has consisted of 2 ambulance rides, 2 hospitals, and 3 seizures and 2 wiped out people.  Thankfully after sedation Adam has been able to get some much needed sleep and rest.  I will take it as a good sign that he just asked me to climb in his hospital bed and sleep with him instead of the bed given to me... he loves me and is so sweet and tender towards me even when he doesn't feel well... I love my man!

Right now the team here is trying to figure out cause for the seizures and his nausea.  Running tests and scans to locate and treat whatever it is that is going on.  It's been a long day and after the third seizure, it took Adam quite sometime before he starting to be responsive and following commands.  As we close out our day, he is doing much better, taking, and walking on his own... thank you for all those who so quickly responded to my prayer requests and for texting me, leaving me facebook messages, emails, and all your encouragement... it was truly a blessing to feel and see God's powerful hands working today in the midst of the craziness that this day brought.

God's peace has been a thick cloud engulfing Adam and I today... it's brought showers of comfort and His unending love.   I can honestly say, I hate hospitals and often cringe just at the thought of having to walk through the door of one, but today He has been my Refuge, my Strength, my Peace, and my Deliverer from my fear and unbelief.  In my devotion this morning it states, "unbelief looks at God through circumstances... but faith puts God between itself and circumstances and looks at them through Him."  I am praying for the strength to endure God's will whatever that is for this moment... even if it is to walk this journey through another hospital.

But I will sing of your strength, in the morning I will sing of your love; for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble. Psalm 59:16

The view from Adam's floor, downtown Portland, OR looking at Mt St Helens

The other side of the view looking at Mt Hood
Well if we're going to be in the hospital, Adam sure did pick one with quite a view!  Rejoicing in God's beauty that we are surrounded by and celebrating His magnificent creation.  Not just outside, but in Adam as well... I love my man and I love all that he has taught me in the last several years walking this journey with him.  He consistently points me to the cross, he shows me Jesus every day through his own actions and words... he continues to make me a better person.  I thank God for the gift of Adam he has given me everyday... especially because there have  been too many times where I wasn't sure I would have the blessing of laying next to him and hear him pray over me... yes my man loves me and loves God so much more... I am one blessed and rambling wife right now.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Our Journey... 3 years of New Beginnings

Oh there are truly days I would love to disappear, this is one of them.  May 15th could forever be erased.  I think about how I would love to have one day to run away from my reality and have one day that I don't have to face all that has happened, one day to not face how quickly my life had changed... and then that small still voice speaks and reminds me of all the good of all the joy in the journey.  The small still voices speaks truth into my deep rooted sorrow, reminding me that God is still in control, that He has a perfect way, and that not one tear has gone unnoticed by Him.  And as I look up to the mountains and seek the joy of Lord... He is consistently renewing my strength, and giving me the strength to rest in His promises. 

Max Lacado writes "Catch God in a bad mood? Won't happen.  Fear exhausted grace? A sardine will swallow the Atlantic first.  Think he's given up on you? WRONG.  Did he not make a promise to you?  'God is not a human being, and he does not change his mind.  What he says he will do, he does.  What he promises, he makes come true.' Numbers 23:19(NCV)  He's never sullen or sour, sulking or stressed.  His strength, truth, ways, and love never change.  'He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.' Hebrews 13:8 And because he is the Lord 'will be the stability of your times' Isaiah 33:6 (NKJV)

Dear Adam,
Over the last three years, Adam you have inspired me through your perseverance, your endurance, your strength and your ability to overcome odds stacked against you. 
While I  would have never chosen a brain injury to change our lives, I can honestly say Adam and his injury has made me a better person.  Adam has taught me laugh, he has shown me it’s okay to cry, you have taught me to rejoice in ALL the little blessings along the way! You have made me more compassionate, patient, understanding, you taught me to be careful with my words, to live each moment as a gift, to love intentionally… to love with a depth of my soul that I didn’t know existed, at times to love without words, without expression, to love beyond myself, recognizing the supernatural love that makes this all possible. 
Adam you taught me to cling to my faith, to pray without ceasing, to be content despite the circumstances, to hope beyond reason; you taught me that there is no sweeter place to be than on my knees.  To my man, I say thank you!  I love you so much, and I AM SO PROUD TO BE YOUR WIFE!

Let me recap the last month for you all...

We travelled through, storms, rain, heat, hail, and snow and finally arrived from North Carolina to Oregon a couple of weeks ago... I still can't believe we are here.

In the last couple of weeks, Mackenzie started a new school, Adam started therapy... well, I just make sure everyone gets to where they need to be and do my best to stay on top of it all.  Let's start with Mackenzie, thank you to all who have been lifting her into the hands of Jesus, He's carrying her through this season victoriously!  Her transition into this new school has been the easiest and most exciting transitions we have experienced!  She LOVES her new school and is academically thriving.  She seems to be making friends and enjoying her days, but to be honest... I haven't seen much of her.  I compete now with horses for her attention.  She loves being on Adam's family's farm.  And when she has 100 horses surrounding her and lots of new babies from this foaling season, she is in her own little heaven.  She helped her Gramps with the delivery of a foal and she has told me that and riding Tennessee (Granny's pony horse) and helping Gramps is better than Disneyland!

As for Adam... just a few days after arriving here in Oregon, Adam had another seizure.  I believe it stemmed from over doing it, travelling, working on the farm, and being in familiar territory, yet still trying to make sense of his life.  He seems to have recovered from this last seizure without any complications which is truly a miraculous gift from God.  Adam needs to be covered in prayer as much as you can remember to pray for him... he is trying to so hard to make sense of his life and as he is coming to the realization of his age, he is aware of all the years he has lost and this is very, very hard for him.  It's good, but it is very hard. 

Please pray that as Adam starts to put the pieces of his life together, that he would remember and that we wouldn't have to start over every day.  Please pray for his memory to increase and for him to be able to build on memory.  Pray that God will comfort him during this difficult season, that Adam would see his purpose and know that his life has so much meaning.  Often when Adam is struggling with his memory loss, he tells me he has no purpose, and he feels like his life is meaningless.  I remind him of all that God has done, of all that God is doing, and that God has called Adam to be His mighty warrior from the very beginning.

Adam skyping with Dan in Boston!  Thank you Dan for encouraging Adam and congratulations on making your Honors at school! 

Mackenzie on the farm

Adam taking one of the mini horses and her baby for a walk

Uncle Brad teaching Mackenzie gun safety and having fun

Me and my sisters, a day on the deck at my mom's

Mackenzie riding Tennessee... I am pretty sure she was on Tennessee more yesterday than she was off of him.

Adam showing off his collection one day, he is doing an amazing job collecting all those eggs from the chickens here.
Okay, I had fun shooting too!

Adam painting one of the barns

I love sunsets!  This is the one God painted for me from my mom's deck!

Spring time at the farm means LOTS of flowers!!!

Adam, Mackenzie, and I watched as this baby made its way into the world on Monday!

We had the awesome privilege of having Pendleton Wools shoot their Fall catalog here this week!
As you can all see, there is so much to do and so much that is always going on here... one thing is for sure, a farm in the spring time doesn't lend to very much down time!  BUSY BUSY BUSY... But God is showing me new beginnings all over the farm, from baby horses, our chicks, baby sparrows all over the farm, our baby ducklings that have made their home on the pond and the many blossoming flowers and trees... new beginnings happen more than once... Praise the Lord for our many new beginnings in our journey of brain injury.  God is healing Adam daily and refining our new beginnings regularly. 

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Taking Comfort in God's Timing

I absolutely love how God takes care of us and knows our needs even before we do.  His love is so amazing.  As I had blogged about in earlier posts, Adam's agitation was challenging to handle and there were some really tough days.  In the midst of those days, my sister Renae did the only thing she knew to help... she booked a plane ticket to come out here to North Carolina from Seattle to come help.  Her plane ticket was booked and sent to me on March 1st and I couldn't have been more excited to count down the days till she was coming.  But now I see it as a different plan... When making the decision to travel west for Adam's recovery we had about very little time to ponder, process, and execute the plan... all this came about after my sister booked her ticket. 

She arrives Thursday morning and her timing, God's timing, really couldn't be more perfect.  I love that she is so grounded in the Lord and in tune with His Spirit that she allowed Him to work through her.  She's coming in the midst of this craziness to help get all that needs to get done, done!  Thank you Jesus that He knows our needs even before we do.  His love is so amazing, and GREAT is His faithfulness.

Philippians 4:19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

Matthew 6:32 but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs.

In the process of getting ready for our journey... we had some errands to run.  I wanted to share one of our experiences with our blog readers...!/photo.php?fbid=10151530420804661&set=o.9062006483&type=1&theater

I continue to pray that where we go we will impact others for the Kingdom of God... but God's people often impact us, showing us Christ through them each and every day!

Monday, April 1, 2013

Heading Out West

Thank you all so much for your sweet words of encouragement, texts, emails, cards, and especially your prayers!  God has been so faithful, even though we have been walking through a valley, He has continued to carry me in the palm of His hands and I can honestly testify that He has kept me from becoming discouraged.  He has placed people in my path right when I have needed someone to pray with me and to encourage me to keep looking up, for it is where my help comes from.  Through His devine appointments He is showing me  His ways are higher, He is showing me continuously that He is ever so present and that He continues to have a plan for all of us.

God amazes me daily as I watch Adam continue to progress each and every day... His healing is present in Adam every day, and I recognize this as an incredible gift.  As Adam progresses we create new normals and with God's help we redefine what recovery looks like for Adam.  Some changes are easy, while others are difficult and challenging for all of us.  A few weeks ago, Adam's doctors and therapists agreed that Adam was progressing in ways that were surprising and wonderful, starting to recognize that something has happened to him and recognizing his memory loss.  His team suggested taking a break from all therapies except Speech therapy (speech therapy concentrates on cognitive and memory).  Their reasoning was to allow Adam more time to process and time to concentrate on his memory without such a crowded schedule. 

During this time, it was also proposed that we spend time in Oregon, where Adam's environment will be familiar to him.  I explained to his team that we spend Mackenzie's summer break out there (which isn't long because she is in year round school here).  Realizing we would only be there for a few weeks, their concern was more confusion for Adam.  Just a couple weeks could potentially be too short, not giving Adam's brain the time it needs to process change and all that has happened.  They suggested we consider a 3 month block of time minimum, and to look at it as the "rehab" Adam needs right now.  My initial reaction was "no way", I can't uproot Mackenzie from school again... it just seem like the right thing to do.  I spent quite a bit of time praying and seeking God's face in these suggested changes.  One evening (early morning), I was unable to sleep, so I got up and just spent time praying and seeking God's face... here is the Word I got...

Hebrews 10:35 & 36 "So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded.  You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised."  My footnote explains it this way... The Bible gives us a clear choice between two life directions.  Because life often forks off in two directions, you must take the higher road, even though it looks more difficult and treacherous.  That road gets steep in place.  The climb takes a toll on your energy.  It gets lonely.  Not many on it, but more than you imagined, and some because of your example.  It gets slipper; Satan blows ice on the narrow passages.  Despite its dangers, the higher road is bound for the peak, and you'll make it.  God has a lifeline around you.  When you are tempted to falter in your faith or to turn back from following Christ, keep focused on what he has done for you and what he offers in the future.

I spent some time talking with Mackenzie about these potential changes and asked what she thought and she just wanted to be in Oregon with Gramps and Granny.  And so the decision has been made... we are leaving for Oregon in less than 2 weeks and with God's grace He has given me joy, peace, and excitement for all that He is going to do through this time.  Please pray for our family as we have a lot to get done in a very short amount of time, pray for health for our family (Mackenzie currently has the flu), and please pray for our safety as we will be driving to Oregon.

Mackenzie's happiest place, on the farm with Gramps.

Adam, Jack, and Mackenzie

Cookie and Adam

Mackenzie and Goldie
Cookie and Adam
Yes, Goldie will be traveling with us to the farm, she is going to love it!

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Faith In A Valley

George Mueller writes "Faith has nothing to do with feelings or with impressions, with improbabilities or with outward experiences. If we desire to couple such things with faith, then we are no longer resting on the Word of God, because faith needs nothing of the kind. Faith rests on the naked Word of God. When we take Him at His Word, the heart is at peace."

I pondered this quote for a very long time.  I have nothing except to rest on the Word of God, I have nothing except to trust in God's promises.  I have nothing without God.  For my hope is Him.

Oh how I have prayed for hours asking God to increase my faith in these last few weeks.  I have cried out begging the Lord for His sword of the Spirit to increase in power, that I may not surrender to these trials we are facing but to forge through them in the palm of His hands... He is faithful.

Please, please keep praying for Adam, if ever he has needed to be lifted up into the Lord's refuge and hiding place it is now.  We have recently entered a "new phase" of this journey.  While I can see that good will come from it, walking through it is very difficult and not at all possible without the grace and presence of God.  While I believe in God's word of FULL restoration and I will keep praying and believing that God could heal Adam today, fully heal him, with no signs or symptoms of this injury... I believe that with ALL my heart.  In the meantime of walking daily through this journey I know God is with me, because by faith I can take Him at His word even when I may not feel Him next to me.  One of my favorite songs lately has been Lindsey Kane's The Valley she sings...

Just when I thought
This valley couldn't get any deeper
Just when I thought
I was stepping out of it
Just when I thought
A mountain was in my view
That's when I saw You

You didn't take me out of it
But You're showing me in it
You didn't lift me out of it
But You're lifting me up in it
You didn't pull me out of it
But You're pulling me towards You in it
And I know I'll be okay
He is truly pulling me towards Him while going through this trial, I can see how He is so faithful in answering the cries of my heart when I beg Him to increase my faith.  He is so faithful.  Psalm 126:5-6, Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.  He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him.  My footnote says "God's ability to restore life is beyond our understanding. Forests burn down and are able to grow back. Broken bones heal.  Even grief is not a permanent condition. Our tears can be seeds that will grow out of tragedy.  When burdened by sorrow, know that our times of grief will end and that you will again find joy. We must be patient as we wait.  God's great harvest of joy is coming!"  I am claiming this and believing for it!
These last couple of weeks, have been very difficult and challenging.  The blessing is that Adam is becoming aware of his memory loss, which is opening the door for him to realize that something has happened to him and will takes us to a whole new incredible level in his recovery.  Most days he has NO CLUE that he has a brain injury and is working hard to overcome the challenges of this injury.  At the mention of this he becomes very angry.  Now, he is recognizing that it's the year 2013 and he can't remember anything for the last 15 years.  In these moments when he allows himself to be out of the fog he has been in and face this harsh reality, he gets scared, upset, and very angry.  And with his anterograde amnesia, we often end up having the same conversation hour after hour. I can see how painful this is for him to go through, I watch as he is angry and upset and confused.  I also become his target and this has been extremely hard. 
While I can see this awareness as a good thing and the potential that it holds once we are on the other side of this, for right now walking through it has been the most painful experience yet.  Because Adam is unaware of his motocross accident, and can't remember even through reminding him or showing him pictures, he has convinced himself that I caused this. At times he thinks I have kidnapped him, and at other times he thinks I am playing a cruel joke on him.  Oh how I cry out to God that He would miraculously restore Adam's memory.  I feel as though Adam's brain injury hates me, I know Adam loves me even if he is unable to show me or understand right now.  I can barely see the screen through my tears as I type all of this... it is so incredibly painful.
Adam has sunk into depression and living with anger that most of us could not understand, he needs your prayers.  Join me in praying and placing the armor of God on Adam as he faces this battle.  Pray for deliverance from this injury.  Pray for perseverance to continue fighting, Adam has refused therapies and is making everyday life challenging refusing to even stay in church with me.  We have decided to cut back on therapies for the time being, and concentrate on only speech therapy which is Adam's most difficult therapy because it forces him to work on his memory.  Pray for Mackenzie and I to have the grace and patience we need for this season, pray that we will not take any of this personal.  Most times I can separate Adam's brain injury from Adam, but as the days have worn on, and the yelling and agitation has increased, it has been more difficult.
God's presence has been incredibly thick for me these last few days, He has revealed Himself and His splendor to me through His Word.  While I am facing difficult days, I am being carried by Him, I am in the palm of His hands, He is pulling me towards Him in all my brokenness.  He is alive in me and I cannot stop blessing His name.  We serve an awesome and powerful God, one who is strong enough to carry me through this and it is with His joy he gives me the strength to march on... not crawl on, but march on.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Love is... GOD

Happy Valentine's Day

Dear friends, let us love one another for love comes from God. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.  This love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.  Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 1 John 4: 7,9-11

"What makes me beautiful to God is Jesus"  Tim Keller

I didn't grow up in a home where love freely flowed.  Love was a foreign concept to me.  I thought as long as I "felt" love for someone than that was what love was.  This also meant that in order to "feel" loved I had to "earn" the "feeling" of someone else's love, love never seemed to be unconditional.  The idea that God loves me, truly loves me and cherishes me has taken awhile to sink in.  Love is so much more than something I "feel", it's how I respond and walk daily through this life, it's allowing God who IS LOVE to reign in me for all to see. 

In April of 2010 just a month before Adam's injury I was home in Seattle for a short week... most of that week I spent in bed sick with the stomach flu, but as I laid in bed, I wrestled so many thoughts.  Before I left for Seattle I had heard a sermon on the gifts of the spirit that didn't seem to line up with the truth in the Bible.  (A quick side note... I believe that there is a great misuse of God's gifts, but I do believe that ALL of the gifts of the Spirit are alive today, because God says in His word "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever" Hebrews 13:8)  I laid in bed and I knew the Holy Spirit was prompting me to explore His love, and the gifts mentioned in His word... and that is just what I did. 

Before I came to this reconciliation in my side note above, I was questioning and the validity of the sermon I had heard and trying to line it up in God's word.  This led me to even question God's love for me... did He really love me.  How do I truly know He loves me if I can't always feel Him near me, does this mean it has passed on too?  All these questions began to rise... this led me on a near 5 week excursion through God's love note, His word, and every moment of every day in these 5 weeks leading up to Adam's injury God revealed His deep, unending, compassionate, fierce love for me.  My journal reveals His pursuit of me and His wooing me with every passing day.  Knowing what was going to come in a little over a month, I believe the Holy Spirit was preparing my heart so that I would NOT question God's love for me in our journey and question I will not.

He continues to woo me in His word daily, what has happened to our family may seem like tragedy to most, but I see it as a beautiful love story daily unfolding before my eyes.  God reaches me tangibly and loves me abundantly through His word and through the innocence of Adam.  Adam might not always know who I am, but the Holy Spirit residing in Adam knows me by name and because perfect love casts out fear, Adam loves me without fear even if there is some confusion in his flesh, there is no confusion in his spirit and love flows from God and pours into my soul... BECAUSE GOD IS LOVE.

Love is not a feeling, love is God.  Love came down and was born so that I can KNOW love.  Not know what love is, but KNOW LOVE.

To earnestly love others we much first know Love.  It is through God's supernatural, unconditional, unending love for us that we can love others and love them beyond ourselves.  My challenge to all of you, open the sweetest Love story of all time, God's Word, and allow Him to fill you with His love, be immersed by His love for you... there is no doubt how much He truly loves us.

These are flowers that were on my front door step with a card signed "With my unfailing love, God"  This is how much God loves us... He even shows us tangibly that He is always thinking of us and He loves us!  His grace and presence is all around, open our hearts to know and see your grace and presence that is all around us... Amen!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Seeking God for FULL Restoration

I count it such a blessing an honor to be my man's wife.  I often tell him I can't believe he picked me to be his wife, truly an honor!!!  I also count it a privilege to pray for him and to continuously trust God for His will with Adam's life.  I never would have imagined that our love would continue to grow and strengthen to the depths that it has in the last 2 and half years of walking this journey and I am consistently amazed by God's grace and unfailing love in it all.  I cannot surrender to Adam's brain injury, I will continue to seek God daily sometimes hourly for Adam's FULL restoration.  I have asked that those who feel led to, to please consider fasting for Adam's FULL restoration tomorrow February 1st.

In my last post I mentioned that I sought pastoral and biblical counsel as to whether or not it was appropriate for me to ask others to fast for Adam's FULL restoration.  Fasting for me is very personal and I want it to remain personal especially for all of you who choose to participate, so please do not reply letting us know whether you are fasting... please just boldly go before the throne of grace on Adam's behalf.

When I was seeking counsel, our pastor put it this way... fasting is an intense time of prayer,we often ask for friends and family to pray for a need, a situation, or even a family member.... asking others to fast is asking them to join us in an intense time of prayer... so I am asking you all to enter an intense time of prayer tomorrow for Adam's healing. 

Our pastor encouraged me with this and with his permission I am passing this on to you...

"In Luke 17:6. Jesus tells us that we can "say to a mulberry tree, 'Be uprooted and planted into the sea,'" and it will obey us. The New Testament was written in the Greek language, and in the Greek it literally says, "Keep on continuously saying to the mulberry tree, 'Be uprooted.'" In other words, one of Jesus' core teachings on prayer is that we may have to continuously speak into the problem, day after day, month after month, year after year, as I know you have been doing (see Luke 18:1). We may see a dramatic healing after Friday, February 1. If not, let's not become discouraged, but let's continue to speak into the problem.
God will do one of two things as a result of your obedient, fervent prayers. In Hebrews 11:1-34 we see SUPERNATURAL FAITH. Miracles occur, dead people come back to life, armies and enemies are destroyed. However, in the second part of that chapter (Hebrews 11:35-40) we see SUSTAINING FAITH. Miracles don't occur, yet God's people don't give up. The answer doesn't come like people would like, yet they still cling to God. The Bible says, "These were all commended for their faith" (v.40). So, if God performs a miracle, He will commend you for your faith. If the miracle doesn't occur right away, He will still commend you for your faith. Sustaining faith is as powerful (if not more so) as supernatural faith." (Pastor Chad Harvey)
Please start by thanking  God for the amazing and already miraculous healing that has already taken place in Adam, the fact that he is talking, walking, and reading and writing is miraculous all in itself!  Please pray for Adam's memory both past memory and the ability to create and obtain new memories (right now Adam has the loss of about 13 years of memory and can only hold onto a new memory for about 5-20 minutes).  
Pray that Adam will not surrender to his injury but with God's joy and strength continue to persevere in each moment.  Pray for Adam's vision (he is unable to see out of the right side of his right and left eyes, and his visual perception is tilted), pray for his endurance and the patience he needs for his recovery.  Pray that God will continue give us a fresh and new love for each other.  Pray against discouragement in both myself and in Adam, especially as he has become more aware of the loss of his memory.  Pray for peace for Adam, often times his brain injury gets upset and likes to be angry with me.   Please don't forget to look at the post I previously did on this, our house will be open for anyone who wants to come by and pray for Adam. 
Thank you for praying for my man and for believing with me in his FULL restoration, trusting God has it all in HIS perfect timing. 
Adam's mom Cookie came for a visit!

My not so little girl
Too cute of picture not to share, even though it's blurry
My man!

Working hard at a typing program, already typing 28 words per minute!

Praying for Adam's FULL Restoration

For fasting encouragement

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Please Join Us...

Before Adam's injury I never quite got excited for the new year like I do now... now I get so excited at the potential of a new year!  I can't wait to see all that God is going to do!  2013 brings new horizons of endless potential!  With the changing of the year it also brings changes in our journey... where we are at the beginning of this year is so far removed from where we were at the beginning of last year PRAISE THE LORD for progress! 

I am challenged this year to pray specifics for Adam's recovery.  I ask that those who are partnering with us in prayer for Adam's FULL restoration and healing, please also consider praying for specifics in Adam's recovery.  If God has already given you something to pray specifically for, then I want to say thank you for your prayers and for the your continued support in our journey.  As we go forward in the next year I am praying specifically for Adam's memory, both the return of his memory and the ability to create new memories.  I am praying that God will breathe new life into the areas of Adam's brain that have shown "medically and scientifically" to be dead.  I am praying for increased awareness EVERY day.  I am praying that God will bring forth new brain cells, new axons, new neurons (This is easy for God, NOTHING is impossible for Him), I am praying that where diffusion has occurred, that it will be mended.  Praying also for provisions over some much needed resources.

James 5:13-18
Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.  Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.  Elijah was a human being, even as we are. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years. Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops.

Never question God healing Adam or doubt for one second that He has abandoned our journey... Adam continues to prove that God heals, that God still provides incredible miracles.  Healing may not be taking form in the way that "I want", but healing is happening in Adam moment by moment by God's continued mercy and grace and in His perfect timing.  To some this might sound trite, to me this comforts.  As I seek God as my refuge, waiting on Him daily, He continues to hold me tightly in His love.  He continues to allow me to feel Him tangibly every moment that He is healing Adam.  Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

God shows me daily that in His timing, lives are being transformed, purification is happening, in my dark hours He is showing up with His flashlight to guide my thoughts back to Him, you see... God is my only hope, science gave up on Adam, by definition Adam "failed" rehab, BUT God, God, has done and continues to do the impossible in Adam. He is faithful and never fails.  I will continue to take comfort in waiting on Him and His timing, because it is perfect and amazing.  Isaiah 41:10 (NLT) Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand. (I added emphsis)

After seeking some pastoral advice about what I am about to present to you... I ask that before you continue to read any further, you stop and pray.  Pray whether or not to participate in the following opportunity...

Many of you joined Adam's uncle in fasting for Adam after his injury first occurred, Adam's uncle and a couple of his cousins did a beautiful job writing a blog encouraging those who were fasting and providing resources... the blog can be found at  I would like to ask you all to join me once again in fasting for Adam's FULL restoration.  As we enter the new year it has been pressing on my heart to ask those walking with us in our journey to fast for Adam.  Adam's birthday is coming up February 3, but since that is Super Bowl Sunday I won't ask for that day, but I will ask that you join me Friday February 1, 2013 to fast on whatever capacity you can for Adam's FULL restoration. 

For those who would like to come and lay hands on Adam and pray for him in person, we are opening our house up from 6pm-8:30pm.  I will provide more details in an email for those that would like to attend.  Please email and for those who can't attend in person, please still consider spending the day with us approaching the throne of grace with boldness and confidence for Adam's FULL restoration.

Adam's uncle Doug posted this on his blog a couple years ago and I love it... ponder it.